Normality - what are you missing most?

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Apr 2020
7:38am, 11 Apr 2020
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LindsD
There's another thread for that, runfree.

This is the anger stage of the grief cycle thread.
Apr 2020
2:21pm, 11 Apr 2020
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run free
Ahh i c. Sorry - will wait for the next thread after the anger stage
Apr 2020
2:42pm, 11 Apr 2020
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Derby Tup
What is the next stage?
Apr 2020
3:27pm, 11 Apr 2020
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LindsD
Bargaining :)

But you can move backwards and forwards between stages at any point.
Apr 2020
3:29pm, 11 Apr 2020
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57.5 Degrees of Pain
Structure
Apr 2020
4:46pm, 11 Apr 2020
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jennyh
I miss:

running club, seeing friends, parkrun (quite a lot of overlap on those 3)

the ability to go back to London to see my mum and my nan

working in an office with a proper desk, being able to communicate with colleagues face to face and being able to do more than about 70% of my job

coffee shops

races

the gym

holidays/weekends away/days out

being allowed outside more than once a day

restaurants

pubs (we don’t go that often, but it was nice to have the option occasionally)

having a normal sleeping pattern

not having to meticulously plan every shopping trip and not being constantly worried about running out of stuff

being able to go anywhere more than a couple of miles or so from my house

being able to anything spontaneous

being able to make any future plans
Apr 2020
5:03pm, 11 Apr 2020
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Lynn101
I miss swimming. I'm in my forties but I'd just learnt. I miss practicing the swimming. I was training for my first triathlon and everything had centred around that. I also really miss human touch and when we get out of this I'd really like a hug.
Apr 2020
5:11pm, 11 Apr 2020
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FRU (KeepTheFaith)
From today I suddenly feel guilty for going out. As I am a slow runner all my runs take ages.. I am trying to be mindful

I miss not guilty running

And I miss my stand up desk, might have to go and get it next week as I have terrible shoulder and typing arm ache
Apr 2020
6:26pm, 11 Apr 2020
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Surrey Phil
Being able to socialise with friends, visit family and (like Lynn, above) being able to hug or touch someone other than those I live with.

I feel depressed when I do go out and get treated like I have the plague with everyone giving me an extra-wide berth or crossing the road. I fully understand the reason but this virus makes us anti-social and inhumane. Yet, neighbours and ourselves have been able to really support those who have had to self-isolate which has enabled us to show love for others where we would not ordinarily do so.
Apr 2020
7:47pm, 11 Apr 2020
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Little Nemo
I also miss swimming Lynn101 swim :-(

Oddly I had fallen out of love a bit with it but was just starting to go again when this all kicked off. I miss the people who I used to see swimming every morning that I went. I only used to say hello but it will be nice to see them all again when this is over :-)

I miss getting my daily white Americano before work every morning and the 10% of time the milk was missing because the baristas are a bit shit ;-)

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