The benefits of giving up alcohol

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Dec 2022
9:22am, 5 Dec 2022
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The Terminator
Morning all. I'm still in. Big birthday celebrations for me this week including a weekend in a cottage with my nearest and dearest this weekend. The thought of drinking really fills me with anxiety. I look forward to trying the af Guinness though I think 😃

Have a good week x
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9:25am, 5 Dec 2022
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Diogenes
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9:54am, 5 Dec 2022
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GeneHunt59
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Dec 2022
9:59am, 5 Dec 2022
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HappyG(rrr)
Nice coincidence there W - happy birthday and happy big no drinking number day too!

In. :-) G
Dec 2022
10:05am, 5 Dec 2022
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Rosehip
Happy Birthday WA :)

I’m still here and in for today.

Husband had a soditall day on Thursday and had a bottle of wine - which didn’t lead to another the next day and then he watched the football without drinking too!

I did think, when I saw the bottle that I would struggle not to join him - but had my fake fizz instead and it wasn’t a problem.

Not sure how Christmas and his birthday will go, his family only buy wine as presents - whatever we say about no presents or not drinking *sighs*
Dec 2022
10:12am, 5 Dec 2022
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HappyG(rrr)
TT - wishing you strength for the party time. Happy birthday when it comes though. :-) G
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10:17am, 5 Dec 2022
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HappyG(rrr)
Oh and to Hibeedeb from a few days ago - sorry for "new blood" cult associations! I was trying to be funny. I nearly said "fresh fish" and that's even more worrying expression! Sorry for any offence, or concern! Just "delighted to welcome new friends" would have done, eh? :-) G
Dec 2022
10:32am, 5 Dec 2022
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UltraDunc
I have a variety of drinks that are enjoyable, isn’t it funny that they get labelled as “Soft Drinks “ although my favourite is Ginger Beer which is usually alcohol free and the only type for me .
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10:40am, 5 Dec 2022
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Steve NordRunner
You're right - I had to look that one up. It was invented to be distinct from hard liquour Pietka, Mark Jeffrey and Korab, Harry Edward. "soft drink". Encyclopedia Britannica, 13 Sep. 2022, https://www.britannica.com/topic/soft-drink. Accessed 5 December 2022.
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11:04am, 5 Dec 2022
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Looby Loo
I can now I understand the origin of the word. “Soft” thanks Steve.
Well done WA. Rosehip I’m staring at a bottle of wine someone bought me for my August birthday I also have one from a neighbour since last Xmas. I suspect they don’t drink and regifted to me. I now feel uncomfortable regifting wine.

About This Thread

Maintained by HappyG(rrr)
Looks as though this thread has become popular again, here in 2010 (it's now 2024, and it started in 2008, so I think "ever popular" might be more apt! :-) G ) :-) Good Luck everyone.

A recent plea for those struggling to "reach out" as they say in US of A!

"Anyone not feeling strong and confident, please shout out. Or fmail. Or any other comms that works. Don't drink alcohol when you don't want to, for lack of someone to talk to. Pick up the phone, not the bottle."

Some acronyms, in case people use them:
JFT - Just for today
ODAAT - One day at a time
KIS - Keep it simple
TBOGUA - The Benefits Of Giving Up Alcohol (the title of this thread!)

New feature: article/blog of the month (period may change randomly!) Swittle's wonderful 14,611 days blog: (see links below)

Linking Joopsy's 17 year blog too, cos it's awesome!

There is a GREAT article summarising some of the benefits, to save you having to trawl through the thread (includes links to helpful apps and other resources).

And a great list of Alternative Drinks started by the lovely LindsD:

Please add to these articles and make them as valuable as possible! Thanks! :-) G

And one from way back when...
Dirt Monkey's brilliant blog on TBOGUA too - go try this...

Rebel has recommended a couple of good books:
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER
by Catherine Gray

The Alcohol Experiment: 30 Days to Take Control, Cut Down or Give Up For Good
by Annie Grace

A great response from a health professional in Ireland responding to a question from a Guardian reader about why the warnings on alcoholic drinks that are coming in:

theguardian.com

"Alcohol is responsible for at least 1,000 cancer cases every year in Ireland, with one in eight breast cancer cases arising from alcohol use. Even one to two drinks per day increases the risk of developing cancer, and that risk is the same whether those drinks are wine, spirits or beer. Unfortunately, there is a very low level of public awareness that alcohol has been classed as a Group 1 carcinogen, meaning it is carcinogenic to humans. That is why Ireland has passed legislation that provides for health information labels on alcohol products, including warnings about cancer, liver disease and the danger of drinking in pregnancy. It is unsurprising that the alcohol industry, which promotes its products with carefully crafted myths of good times for all, is objecting to the mandatory provision of facts (Anger brews in Italy over Ireland’s plans for alcohol health warnings, 12 January).
Dr Sheila Gilheany
CEO, Alcohol Action Ireland
"

And the all important fabulous services:
Alcoholics Anonymous
National Helpline (FREE) 0800 9177 650
help@aamail.org

Al Anon
020 7403 0888

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We're adding in our own Fetch offer of one to one contact too, for anyone who doesn't want to post in the thread for whatever reason. Please feel free to fmail ANY of the names listed below.

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HappyG(rrr)
Oscar the grouch
mrs shanksi
Derby Tup
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Love Lettuce
DocM
LindsD
GeneHunt59
GregP star
Joopsy star

Note: we're none of us experts, but we're happy to listen, to answer any questions and to offer support if you think it would help you. Except star marked above. Who are experts! :-)

(Note II: at Christmas some names may change a bit, but I'm sure you can still find us to fmail!)

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