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The benefits of giving up alcohol

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Auld Lang Sigh
Auld Lang Sigh
Dec 2019
1:47pm, 20 Dec 2019
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Fantastic, well done Dio!

Day 537 for me. I'm still feeling the pressure at this time of year (a little bit), but I'm handling it much better than last year. Still ODAAT.
DingDocMerrily
DingDocMerrily
Dec 2019
1:51pm, 20 Dec 2019
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I've been away. But back home tonight so I'll not bother.
Ding Derby merrily on Tup
Ding Derby merrily on Tup
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1:53pm, 20 Dec 2019
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Dio you’re doing great!

We’re out at friends for dinner later but I’ll not be drinking :-)
Nicholls595
Nicholls595
Dec 2019
2:09pm, 20 Dec 2019
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Batting Dio

Nicholls595
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I'll be mostly driving round like a lunatic tonight delivering cards and presents to family because we are away to Cornwall tomorrow.

So tea and diet coke will see me safely through to stumps tonight on 74 not out

Tomorrow and next week could be more problematic. There is a possibility that I come over all Jason Roy in the Ashes....

Ding Derby merrily on Tup
Ding Derby merrily on Tup
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. . . I’m confident you’ll be more like Rahul ‘the Wall’ Dravid Nico. Stay strong 💪🏻
Diogenes
Diogenes
Dec 2019
2:31pm, 20 Dec 2019
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I'm sure you'll pay proper tribute to the doomed at the bar
LindsD
LindsD
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2:55pm, 20 Dec 2019
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Well done, Dio.

I am currently really fretting about OH who is at a very drunken dinner party in Auckland and supposed to be getting picked up for parkrun at 7.30am. I know I can't do anything about what he chooses to do, but it's really stressing me out. I know I'm amongst friends here. That, combined with the lack of sleep and the general Christmas meh-ness and a painter in the house (not a euphemism) means I am quite out of sorts.
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Ding Derby merrily on Tup
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Hang in there Linds
LindsD
LindsD
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Thanks. He will be so disappointed if he misses parkrun but it's not my problem.

It's really not.

About This Thread

Maintained by HappyG(rrr)
Looks as though this thread has become popular again, here in 2010 (it's now 2024, and it started in 2008, so I think "ever popular" might be more apt! :-) G ) :-) Good Luck everyone.

A recent plea for those struggling to "reach out" as they say in US of A!

"Anyone not feeling strong and confident, please shout out. Or fmail. Or any other comms that works. Don't drink alcohol when you don't want to, for lack of someone to talk to. Pick up the phone, not the bottle."

Some acronyms, in case people use them:
JFT - Just for today
ODAAT - One day at a time
KIS - Keep it simple
TBOGUA - The Benefits Of Giving Up Alcohol (the title of this thread!)

New feature: article/blog of the month (period may change randomly!) Swittle's wonderful 14,611 days blog: (see links below)

Linking Joopsy's 17 year blog too, cos it's awesome!

There is a GREAT article summarising some of the benefits, to save you having to trawl through the thread (includes links to helpful apps and other resources).

And a great list of Alternative Drinks started by the lovely LindsD:

Please add to these articles and make them as valuable as possible! Thanks! :-) G

And one from way back when...
Dirt Monkey's brilliant blog on TBOGUA too - go try this...

Rebel has recommended a couple of good books:
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER
by Catherine Gray

The Alcohol Experiment: 30 Days to Take Control, Cut Down or Give Up For Good
by Annie Grace

A great response from a health professional in Ireland responding to a question from a Guardian reader about why the warnings on alcoholic drinks that are coming in:

theguardian.com

"Alcohol is responsible for at least 1,000 cancer cases every year in Ireland, with one in eight breast cancer cases arising from alcohol use. Even one to two drinks per day increases the risk of developing cancer, and that risk is the same whether those drinks are wine, spirits or beer. Unfortunately, there is a very low level of public awareness that alcohol has been classed as a Group 1 carcinogen, meaning it is carcinogenic to humans. That is why Ireland has passed legislation that provides for health information labels on alcohol products, including warnings about cancer, liver disease and the danger of drinking in pregnancy. It is unsurprising that the alcohol industry, which promotes its products with carefully crafted myths of good times for all, is objecting to the mandatory provision of facts (Anger brews in Italy over Ireland’s plans for alcohol health warnings, 12 January).
Dr Sheila Gilheany
CEO, Alcohol Action Ireland
"

And the all important fabulous services:
Alcoholics Anonymous
National Helpline (FREE) 0800 9177 650
help@aamail.org

Al Anon
020 7403 0888

medal medal Contact TBOGUA medal medal

We're adding in our own Fetch offer of one to one contact too, for anyone who doesn't want to post in the thread for whatever reason. Please feel free to fmail ANY of the names listed below.

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HappyG(rrr)
( Oscar the grouch RIP )
mrs shanksi
Derby Tup
iaincr
Love Lettuce
DocM
LindsD
GeneHunt59
GregP star
Joopsy star

Note: we're none of us experts, but we're happy to listen, to answer any questions and to offer support if you think it would help you. Except star marked above. Who are experts! :-)

(Note II: at Christmas some names may change a bit, but I'm sure you can still find us to fmail!)
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