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Elderly parents or relatives to care for and/or worry about? This is the place for you.

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Jul 2018
5:32pm, 15 Jul 2018
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Bazoaxe
MiL reported the pain from her neuralgia has not occurred all week which is a relief as this is such an obvious handicap to her.

Apparently it’s because she changed her toothpaste.

Wife tried to suggest that the changed medication might have started to eventually take effect.
Jul 2018
5:51pm, 15 Jul 2018
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Little Miss Happy
I'm sorry Baz - I had to laugh at that.

Glad you had a better time with your mum today Daisy.

FiL was not good this afternoon, also on a loop, not retaining anything and talking random rubbish - apparently his employers have sent him a letter saying that they are going to let him go. He was also insisting that he is going to buy a new car and talking about getting a touring caravan too.
Jul 2018
6:14pm, 15 Jul 2018
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Badger
That's good, LD, crying parents are so sad (not least because it's one of the hardest bits to take of the role reversals somehow).
Jul 2018
10:23am, 16 Jul 2018
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Carpathius
Oh no LMH, perhaps he's not drinking enough for the weather?

I shouldn't laugh Baz, but that sounds just like something Aunt in law would say!

The medication saga continues. I called the surgery this morning, their clinical pharmacist has issued a prescription (it still has to be signed by a doctor before it can go to the pharmacy).
However, they've only issued five of the seven medications she's on. And the two they haven't done are the two that will have side effects from both stopping suddenly and then restarting.

MiL ran out of some tablets on Saturday and some yesterday.

The pharmacy had already rung the surgery about it, the pharmacist I've been dealing with has been great.
Jul 2018
12:41pm, 16 Jul 2018
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Little Miss Happy
I don't think dehydration is an issue Carp - though the amount of squash that he is drinking may mean that diabetes could be. I don't know if it would apply but my chemist will issue emergency medication on production of an empty box of said product if they have been the one supplying it on repeat - might be worth a phone call?
Jul 2018
1:09pm, 16 Jul 2018
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Carpathius
The previous pharmacy have refused and the new one is doing all they can. It's the surgery holding things up unfortunately.

Good that your dad is drinking well - so many older people don't drink enough.
Jul 2018
8:57am, 18 Jul 2018
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Wriggling Snake
The old man spent a week up here, he liked the Peak Ditrict, and was surprised that we have countryside in the North. I then spent a week down at his, and spent most of it painting the outside of his house, which was needed, ladders, I am not good at ladders.

He seems fine, not sure he is eating that well, so gave a few lessons but the house is tidy enough, seems to cope, the garden is the problem, which I shall fix next visit.
Jul 2018
12:50pm, 18 Jul 2018
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LindsD
That sounds good WS.
Jul 2018
7:10pm, 18 Jul 2018
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ChrisHB
An ordinary computer can make a fair stab at producing text from speech - is there any means of making a phone do that?
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7:30pm, 18 Jul 2018
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LindsD
I should think so. The speech recognition software is already installed - that's how 'okay Google' works.

About This Thread

Maintained by LindsD
I thought I'd start a thread, as lots of us have elderly folks that we worry about/care for.

Useful info for after someone dies here (with thanks to grast_girl)
moneysavingexpert.com

Other useful links

myageingparent.com

moneysavingexpert.com

Who pays for residential care? Information here:

ageuk.org.uk

Advice on care homes and payment/funding

theguardian.com

Also: After someone dies, if their home insurance was only in their name, sadly the cover becomes void. But if the policy was in joint names, it will still cover the surviving policyholder (though the names on the policy will need to be updated).

A useful book of exercises for memory loss and dementia
amazon.co.uk

Pension Credit. The rules are a bit complex but if your elderly relative has some sort of disability (in this case dementia/Alzheimer's) and go into a home, they may be able to claim pension credit. So if carers allowance stops, it seems pension credit can start. It can also be backdated.

Fall alarm company, etc.

careium.co.uk
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