Who are all the single Fetchies!!
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Nov 2018
2:19pm, 7 Nov 2018
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MazH
but he's over it now.... just don't make a habit of it Mr B!
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Nov 2018
7:11pm, 7 Nov 2018
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Happy Cat
Great stuff Jangles!! Date four this weekend with my fella. He's coming over to me again (no Maz!!). I'm very happy and he's putting in a lot of effort so all good. It's my birthday on Sunday and he's taking me out for a special meal in a couple of weeks as he didn't want to impose on any plans I'd already made. Have a feeling I'll see him briefly on Sunday morning though before he goes home. I've booked an AirBnB over his way for next weekend so I can go and see him for a change. Currently a surprise but I'll tell him on Saturday. Not been on my match profile for nearly a month and don't want to. So how do I get him to mention being exclusive / official couple?? |
Nov 2018
10:02pm, 7 Nov 2018
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Meglet
Good stuff Cat. I’d suggest you have a conversation and ask if he’s still looking on dating sites and go from there. |
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Nov 2018
10:41pm, 7 Nov 2018
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Happy Cat
Thanks Meglet. Hmm, kinda hoping he may just suggest it without a full on conversation. Don’t want to scare him off if it’s a bit soon at date 4 this weekend. I’ll see how Saturday goes and let him lead with it.
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Nov 2018
10:44pm, 7 Nov 2018
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Hanneke
Jangles, all sounds very good! I rather suspect he was positively impressed by the visit to the folks and everything leading up to it and got a bit scared thinking: I like this all so much, what if she isn't as keen, took a few deep breaths, slapped himself round the face, said: don't be a fool and got on with it 
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Nov 2018
11:22pm, 12 Nov 2018
19,766 posts
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Meglet
I’m getting increasingly annoyed with Trishop. Apart from the fact I seem to do all the initiation of contact and suggesting dates, he’s posted some unfunny sexist memes on Facebook and joked via text about a serious subject that I don’t feel should ever be joked about, especially as mental health is so much in the news. Today I didn’t text him to see if he would message me. Nothing. I have an opportunity to see him tomorrow but it’s not been pre-arranged (am I weird for wanting to plan when I see someone next?) so I’m going to wait and see if he suggests anything-if he’s on the ball he’ll know I’m free. |
Nov 2018
7:56am, 13 Nov 2018
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halfpint
I think I'd be out of there with the sexist memes to be honest. If it's becoming hard work then it might be time to cut him loose. You didn't see him as a long term prospect anyway, did you? Or was that someone else I'm thinking of?
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Nov 2018
8:31am, 13 Nov 2018
19,767 posts
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Meglet
You’re right HP, I’ve never seen him as a long term. What it has demonstrated quite clearly to me (as well as TT man) is that my instincts are generally correct! I will be pulling him up about the memes and see what he says. |
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Nov 2018
8:52pm, 13 Nov 2018
70,197 posts
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Hanneke
Hmmm, he doesn't sound right in my view Meglet. I really don't like memes in the first place, let alone sexist ones! And if you are having to do all the work, where is that going to end? I feel he has run his course...
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Nov 2018
9:21pm, 13 Nov 2018
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MazH
Or cycled Or swam |
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