Who are all the single Fetchies!!
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Nov 2017
6:26pm, 19 Nov 2017
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Meglet
I hate that. You give up information about yourself but get nothing in return. Trust your instincts Squiggle.
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Nov 2017
6:30pm, 19 Nov 2017
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halfpint
I agree. If your gut says be wary then listen.
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Nov 2017
6:54pm, 19 Nov 2017
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Hanneke
Yup, trust your instincts, that doesn't sound right. Often those tactics are to hide something and they are avoiding having to lie...
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Nov 2017
6:55pm, 19 Nov 2017
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Hanneke
What is your shoe size RS? I have been given 2 pairs of brandnew wellies: one is size 4. Yours if they fit/you want them.
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Nov 2017
10:41pm, 19 Nov 2017
20,481 posts
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Red Squirrel
I am 4! Bingo bongo and thank you. I thought about it for 2 days and now he's disappeared thankfully. I might ask short guy who's now FB friend for coffee some time. Don't know what he's got going on but I think divorced with a teen and a 5 year old.
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Nov 2017
10:47pm, 19 Nov 2017
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Red Squirrel
It seems like a lot of chaps are jaded by flighty women on Tinder and it works the other way too. It's difficult to get rapport going over short messages I would say. I asked one chef what his favourite ingredients were to cook with and he replied dead squirrels! !!!! Hmm. No question back.
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Nov 2017
10:47pm, 19 Nov 2017
20,483 posts
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Red Squirrel
It seems like a lot of chaps are jaded by flighty women on Tinder and it works the other way too. It's difficult to get rapport going over short messages I would say. I asked one chef what his favourite ingredients were to cook with and he replied dead squirrels! !!!! Hmm. No question back.
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Nov 2017
12:23am, 20 Nov 2017
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Hanneke
They are leopard print RS, but a nice tread and free  I found the Guardian Soulmate profiles and messages all pretty wordy and comprehensive, allthough I got another weird one today: George in France, he is 67, and the oldest he wants his woman to be is 52, so really, I am getting to be almost too old for him : ''Hi, Wanna visit? I am in my Conservatory, with an Acer, banana plant and avocado tree, and twenty geraniums. It is heated by a small wood stove, and is not hot! Near freezing outside. It would be good if we could visit each other for the evening... a glass of wine, and a good conversation, and retire, magically, back to our own homes.... Kind thoughts, George'' Considering this bloke lives on a smallholding in France, and I am in Wales, I am not sure of the practicalities of all this
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Nov 2017
7:41am, 20 Nov 2017
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Pou Pou LePhoõk
Hat's on, everyone! Once you've soiled the bedding It's time for a wedding. |
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Nov 2017
9:42am, 20 Nov 2017
69,540 posts
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Hanneke
Afraid not, reign in your excitement guys... I just had a VERY long email from him explaining why he doesn't want to move things beyond a friendship and realises that, once s*x enters the equation it becomes a muddled subject I could sort of see it coming really. He is in quite a difficult place: new job, new house and some other stuff. Really he should actually be happy with himself and his new life first, before jumping into a relationship. I said we'd go with the flow and he very nicely and subtly reminded me of the fact that that is what he wants to do. Quite why he put himself back on GSM in August when it was all change, I don't know... Or maybe it was the conversations we had that made him realise that he needs to be 'happy in his own skin' as the tick box on GSM says, before entering a new relationship. He doesn't want to screw things up... I am not sure about this, as I AM happy in my own skin and definitely ready for a new relationship... sooooo... I have added a paragraph to my GSM profile and have unhidden it again. I am so glad I kept the dialogue open with both Hayman and Reluctant Communicator, the latter has actually been a really nice communicator, once we had made good phone contact... Two interesting looking blokes have looked at my profile since I slightly changed it (it bumps you up) and I have liked them in readyness for an hour of 'working GSM tonight... I only have till the 23rd with my membership!!! Hopefully Reluctant Communicator will be back here soon too, so we can actually meet. I like him so much on the phone that I was surprised I liked NT man so much too... And yes, I was disappointed getting that email... because I really really like NT man... But I don't actually want a relationship (again!) with someone who uses it as therapy and me as their therapist! I think it is positive he is clear about what he wants and needs and can communicate it though. He still wants to meet etc and go with the flow, just wanted to be clear, for which I am grateful! |
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