Elderly parents or relatives to care for and/or worry about? This is the place for you.

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LindsD
Hugs to you, macca, and Mrs macca (())
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EvilPixie
Sorry to hear the news macca but sometimes it's the right news

Take care of yourself now xx
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Nellers
Hugs to you and yours Macca. It’s better this way but it still sucks.
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DocMoye
Thinking of you Macca
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Lip Gloss
Thoughts with you all Mecca x
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Lip Gloss
*Macca* blooming autocorrect
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LazyDaisy
I'm sorry for your loss Macca. xx
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Little Miss Happy
A difficult time despite knowing it was coming macca. Thoughts are with you and yours.
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Thoughts with you and your Macca xx
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macca 53
Thanks for all your kind words. Wherever he is now will be better than the “life” he was living.
In a practical sense, having someone die on a Friday is pants as you can’t do any of the admin stuff needed

About This Thread

Maintained by LindsD
I thought I'd start a thread, as lots of us have elderly folks that we worry about/care for.

Useful info for after someone dies here (with thanks to grast_girl)
moneysavingexpert.com

Other useful links

myageingparent.com

moneysavingexpert.com

Who pays for residential care? Information here:

ageuk.org.uk

Advice on care homes and payment/funding

theguardian.com

Also: After someone dies, if their home insurance was only in their name, sadly the cover becomes void. But if the policy was in joint names, it will still cover the surviving policyholder (though the names on the policy will need to be updated).

A useful book of exercises for memory loss and dementia
amazon.co.uk

Pension Credit. The rules are a bit complex but if your elderly relative has some sort of disability (in this case dementia/Alzheimer's) and go into a home, they may be able to claim pension credit. So if carers allowance stops, it seems pension credit can start. It can also be backdated.

Fall alarm company, etc.

careium.co.uk

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