The benefits of giving up alcohol

2 lurkers | 280 watchers
27 contributors in last 30 days
Mar 2019
8:08am, 21 Mar 2019
30,045 posts
  •  
  • 0
Derby Tup
No drinks planned today. Hope all okay tea
Mar 2019
8:17am, 21 Mar 2019
30,828 posts
  •  
  • 0
HappyG(rrr)
I'm with you DT. Sounds like recovery is progressing really well. Very pleased for you. Today will definitely not be enhanced by alcohol!

We have our son, daughter in law and grandson visiting for a few days, and in the past I'd have wanted a beer or wine in evenings and resented feeling guilty or having to abstain because D-i-L isn't drinking (actually son doesn't drink either!) Now, we're all happy non-drinkers, and the provisions we have bought in are cakes and soft drinks! :-) G
Mar 2019
8:24am, 21 Mar 2019
30,046 posts
  •  
  • 0
Derby Tup
Cakes and soft drinks sound good :-)
Mar 2019
8:27am, 21 Mar 2019
26,887 posts
  •  
  • 0
LindsD
Excellent. No drinking today for me. tea
Mar 2019
8:32am, 21 Mar 2019
30,049 posts
  •  
  • 0
Derby Tup
G the medical staff said I could have a drink four weeks (or maybe six - I wasn’t listening particularly well) after my operation where they took three cancerous tumours out of my liver. I think even at my shall we say, keenest to drink I’d have struggled to fancy a pint that quick. Recovery is generally going very well thanks
Mar 2019
8:47am, 21 Mar 2019
3,471 posts
  •  
  • 0
Sigh
Excellent, G!
Glad the recovery is going so well, DT.
Me neither, Linds tea

After going for nearly a month without alcohol, my wife chose to try some white wine on Saturday - it was a bottle of Australian Chardonnay that's about £4.50 in Asda, the sort she used to drink regularly. She hated it, and wonders how she ever used to drink it at all. Hasn't had anything else since.

Day 263 for me. Having a cuppa while waiting for the AA breakdown (that's for the car, just to be clear; I don't think the other AA offer that service!)
Mar 2019
8:52am, 21 Mar 2019
30,830 posts
  •  
  • 0
HappyG(rrr)
Oh, that's interesting Si (now that I know your proper name!) that your wife actually doesn't like the taste now. Unfortunately I never reached that stage! What I used to think was a nice wine, would still taste nice (the stuff that used to taste like p*ss still would, of course - Blue Nun, I'm looking at your!) Ditto "nice" beers. But that's my cross to bear. And it's really not that big a loss! :-) G
Mar 2019
8:55am, 21 Mar 2019
30,050 posts
  •  
  • 0
Derby Tup
263 days is great Si :-)
Mar 2019
8:59am, 21 Mar 2019
3,473 posts
  •  
  • 0
Sigh
Thanks folks. I also had a nice reward on the scales today - down to 87.5kg, so that's 19kg lost in those 263 days. Just 5kg to reach my target now.
Mar 2019
9:07am, 21 Mar 2019
30,051 posts
  •  
  • 0
Derby Tup
3 stone in old mondy. Outstanding

About This Thread

Maintained by HappyG(rrr)
Looks as though this thread has become popular again, here in 2010 (it's now 2023, and it started in 2008, so I think "ever popular" might be more apt! :-) G ) :-) Good Luck everyone.

A recent plea for those struggling to "reach out" as they say in US of A!

"Anyone not feeling strong and confident, please shout out. Or fmail. Or any other comms that works. Don't drink alcohol when you don't want to, for lack of someone to talk to. Pick up the phone, not the bottle."

Some acronyms, in case people use them:
JFT - Just for today
ODAAT - One day at a time
KIS - Keep it simple
TBOGUA - The Benefits Of Giving Up Alcohol (the title of this thread!)

New feature: article/blog of the month (period may change randomly!) Swittle's wonderful 14,611 days blog: (see links below)

Linking Joopsy's 17 year blog too, cos it's awesome!

There is a GREAT article summarising some of the benefits, to save you having to trawl through the thread (includes links to helpful apps and other resources).

And a great list of Alternative Drinks started by the lovely LindsD:

Please add to these articles and make them as valuable as possible! Thanks! :-) G

And one from way back when...
Dirt Monkey's brilliant blog on TBOGUA too - go try this...

Rebel has recommended a couple of good books:
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER
by Catherine Gray

The Alcohol Experiment: 30 Days to Take Control, Cut Down or Give Up For Good
by Annie Grace

A great response from a health professional in Ireland responding to a question from a Guardian reader about why the warnings on alcoholic drinks that are coming in:

theguardian.com

"Alcohol is responsible for at least 1,000 cancer cases every year in Ireland, with one in eight breast cancer cases arising from alcohol use. Even one to two drinks per day increases the risk of developing cancer, and that risk is the same whether those drinks are wine, spirits or beer. Unfortunately, there is a very low level of public awareness that alcohol has been classed as a Group 1 carcinogen, meaning it is carcinogenic to humans. That is why Ireland has passed legislation that provides for health information labels on alcohol products, including warnings about cancer, liver disease and the danger of drinking in pregnancy. It is unsurprising that the alcohol industry, which promotes its products with carefully crafted myths of good times for all, is objecting to the mandatory provision of facts (Anger brews in Italy over Ireland’s plans for alcohol health warnings, 12 January).
Dr Sheila Gilheany
CEO, Alcohol Action Ireland
"

And the all important fabulous services:
Alcoholics Anonymous
National Helpline (FREE) 0800 9177 650
help@aamail.org

Al Anon
020 7403 0888

medal medal Contact TBOGUA medal medal

We're adding in our own Fetch offer of one to one contact too, for anyone who doesn't want to post in the thread for whatever reason. Please feel free to fmail ANY of the names listed below.

- - - -
HappyG(rrr)
Oscar the grouch
mrs shanksi
Derby Tup
iaincr
Love Lettuce
DocM
LindsD
GeneHunt59
GregP star
Joopsy star

Note: we're none of us experts, but we're happy to listen, to answer any questions and to offer support if you think it would help you. Except star marked above. Who are experts! :-)

(Note II: at Christmas some names may change a bit, but I'm sure you can still find us to fmail!)

Useful Links

FE accepts no responsibility for external links. Or anything, really.

Related Threads

  • health
  • mentalhealth
  • support
  • teetotal









Back To Top
X

Free training & racing tools for runners, cyclists, swimmers & walkers.

Fetcheveryone lets you analyse your training, find races, plot routes, chat in our forum, get advice, play games - and more! Nothing is behind a paywall, and it'll stay that way thanks to our awesome community!
Get Started
Click here to join 112,238 Fetchies!
Already a Fetchie? Sign in here