The benefits of giving up alcohol

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WA
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12:44pm, 28 Jan 2021
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WA
I use the I am sober app too.

What is it about your sister Mac? Too bright and sunny, or too miserable? Or every post about "is it too early to open the wine? Wine Wednesday, Thirsty Thursday, etc"?
Jan 2021
12:46pm, 28 Jan 2021
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Maclennane
Three things have driven me to distraction today, and I just feel like I could do with a bit of liquid anaesthetic, but I shan't because the initial relief would be followed by more and that will end up in a spiral.
Jan 2021
12:48pm, 28 Jan 2021
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Maclennane
WA, it's religious evangelising, and the weird victim/high handed dichotomy. Shouldn't let it affect me, but it does.
Jan 2021
12:49pm, 28 Jan 2021
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Nicholls595
Dichotomy sounds like a painful operation?
Jan 2021
12:51pm, 28 Jan 2021
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Maclennane
dammit, and now I've used dichotomy incorrectly
Jan 2021
12:53pm, 28 Jan 2021
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Maclennane
contradiction. It's a damned contradiction.
On the plus side, I now can't afford to go back on the booze.
WA
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1:02pm, 28 Jan 2021
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WA
Ah ok. No need for me to add her then, I know someone very similar!
Jan 2021
1:03pm, 28 Jan 2021
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HappyG(rrr)
Here's a distraction Maclennane - how many Fetchies can you name that you met or saw in the 2009 Abingdon marathon. You've already named Jock Itch at Fetchpoint and Gobi and Last of the Time Lords as marshals.

I started near KinkyS early on, and was encouraged by a fab Fetchie in red running longs near mile 22 who and other places around the course. I will now have to check via my blog what his name was. Who else was at Fetchpoint?
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1:04pm, 28 Jan 2021
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HappyG(rrr)
Just checked - Muds! :-) G
Jan 2021
1:15pm, 28 Jan 2021
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Maclennane
Ran with Smileygirlie, Flanker, Santababy, NaomiP, Gymfreak, had a chat about dressing as a kumquat with someone whose name escapes me, chatted with Pestomum, and the chap I'd been arguing about people's attitudes to ex-military on here the night before, a tall scot who I thought was you but clearly wasn't as I finished in front of him. Who was it in the mask? Dammit. Then, what was her name, dammit, short, smiley woman who asked me directions to the Aprésmarathon, there was Mick n Phil obvs, met Puddington after it had finished...

About This Thread

Maintained by HappyG(rrr)
Looks as though this thread has become popular again, here in 2010 (it's now 2024, and it started in 2008, so I think "ever popular" might be more apt! :-) G ) :-) Good Luck everyone.

A recent plea for those struggling to "reach out" as they say in US of A!

"Anyone not feeling strong and confident, please shout out. Or fmail. Or any other comms that works. Don't drink alcohol when you don't want to, for lack of someone to talk to. Pick up the phone, not the bottle."

Some acronyms, in case people use them:
JFT - Just for today
ODAAT - One day at a time
KIS - Keep it simple
TBOGUA - The Benefits Of Giving Up Alcohol (the title of this thread!)

New feature: article/blog of the month (period may change randomly!) Swittle's wonderful 14,611 days blog: (see links below)

Linking Joopsy's 17 year blog too, cos it's awesome!

There is a GREAT article summarising some of the benefits, to save you having to trawl through the thread (includes links to helpful apps and other resources).

And a great list of Alternative Drinks started by the lovely LindsD:

Please add to these articles and make them as valuable as possible! Thanks! :-) G

And one from way back when...
Dirt Monkey's brilliant blog on TBOGUA too - go try this...

Rebel has recommended a couple of good books:
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER
by Catherine Gray

The Alcohol Experiment: 30 Days to Take Control, Cut Down or Give Up For Good
by Annie Grace

A great response from a health professional in Ireland responding to a question from a Guardian reader about why the warnings on alcoholic drinks that are coming in:

theguardian.com

"Alcohol is responsible for at least 1,000 cancer cases every year in Ireland, with one in eight breast cancer cases arising from alcohol use. Even one to two drinks per day increases the risk of developing cancer, and that risk is the same whether those drinks are wine, spirits or beer. Unfortunately, there is a very low level of public awareness that alcohol has been classed as a Group 1 carcinogen, meaning it is carcinogenic to humans. That is why Ireland has passed legislation that provides for health information labels on alcohol products, including warnings about cancer, liver disease and the danger of drinking in pregnancy. It is unsurprising that the alcohol industry, which promotes its products with carefully crafted myths of good times for all, is objecting to the mandatory provision of facts (Anger brews in Italy over Ireland’s plans for alcohol health warnings, 12 January).
Dr Sheila Gilheany
CEO, Alcohol Action Ireland
"

And the all important fabulous services:
Alcoholics Anonymous
National Helpline (FREE) 0800 9177 650
help@aamail.org

Al Anon
020 7403 0888

medal medal Contact TBOGUA medal medal

We're adding in our own Fetch offer of one to one contact too, for anyone who doesn't want to post in the thread for whatever reason. Please feel free to fmail ANY of the names listed below.

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HappyG(rrr)
Oscar the grouch
mrs shanksi
Derby Tup
iaincr
Love Lettuce
DocM
LindsD
GeneHunt59
GregP star
Joopsy star

Note: we're none of us experts, but we're happy to listen, to answer any questions and to offer support if you think it would help you. Except star marked above. Who are experts! :-)

(Note II: at Christmas some names may change a bit, but I'm sure you can still find us to fmail!)

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