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Elderly parents or relatives to care for and/or worry about? This is the place for you.

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5:28pm
5:28pm, 17 Apr 2026
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geordiegirl
Everything crossed they can sort paperwork quickly and you can get him settled. Hugs
5:31pm
5:31pm, 17 Apr 2026
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Little Miss Happy
It's probably not a bad thing if he doesn't move until after the weekend but annoying that you were basically lied to - good that you were able to speak to the home and get it sorted.
6:37pm
6:37pm, 17 Apr 2026
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Mandymoo
Glad you got that sorted and hope he moves smoothly
6:40pm
6:40pm, 17 Apr 2026
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LindsD
Fingers crossed

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Maintained by LindsD
I thought I'd start a thread, as lots of us have elderly folks that we worry about/care for.

Useful info for after someone dies here (with thanks to grast_girl)
moneysavingexpert.com

Other useful links

myageingparent.com

moneysavingexpert.com

Who pays for residential care? Information here:

ageuk.org.uk

Advice on care homes and payment/funding

theguardian.com

Also: After someone dies, if their home insurance was only in their name, sadly the cover becomes void. But if the policy was in joint names, it will still cover the surviving policyholder (though the names on the policy will need to be updated).

A useful book of exercises for memory loss and dementia
amazon.co.uk

Pension Credit. The rules are a bit complex but if your elderly relative has some sort of disability (in this case dementia/Alzheimer's) and go into a home, they may be able to claim pension credit. So if carers allowance stops, it seems pension credit can start. It can also be backdated.

Fall alarm company, etc.

careium.co.uk

For remote access to a PC (free)

teamviewer.com

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